Sensual massage for men is an act of giving between men.

Sensual massage, like many other massage techniques, is a pure act of giving, but this is especially the case in sensual massage because in sensual massage the aim is to give pleasure without expecting it in return, unless we assume the sensual massage practitioner obtains pleasure by just pleasing other males, which in some ways is true.

Men are men all over and in all shapes deep inside we are the same; our sexuality is mostly physical. I am not going to get into a debate about men and women as I know many women who are as physical as any man, but let it be said that all human beings have two sides of the coin, the feminine or mother side and the masculine or father side; the emotional and the mental, the physical and the emotional, the yin and yang, etc…

The masculine side is close to the primary instincts: the hunter whose principal aim is to cover his and his group’s needs, food, shelter … but to feel emotional attachment to some one is not a need for a hunter, whereas on the other hand sex is.

In the same way that a man being close to his feminine side does not necessarily mean to be feminine, so the same happens with women; they can be close to the hunter and still be feminine and use lipstick and red nail polish.

A massage therapist for men is capable of driving himself in order to balance his energies between both sides, because you cannot be a good therapist if you are a hunter only woman, only a mother giving, but in our case what we are giving is your same energy, you are getting the energy of another hunter, and we understand your instinct because we share the same needs!

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Respect is a word with many meanings and many connotations, and is also a key word for us. By us I mean you and me or in a general way client and professional male masseur therapist or sensual massage practitioner.

Respect for others is what makes a male masseur free of judgments and helps us treat everyone who comes to our studio as an equal, no matter what his age, race, beliefs, etc.  Respect is what makes us see everyone as energy and treat you as our best friend, lover, brother or someone that we do not know at all but we want to help.

Respect for your physical body teaches us to see further than physical appearance, we treat your body as a temple, as the box with something precious inside no matter what the box looks like. We know what is inside deserves all possible respect and we have being trained on that duty.

Respect is the Modus Operandi for any male masseur, especially for an erotic male masseur for men, and we know that every man is entitled to live his life as he chooses and his sexuality as he desires.  This is the reason why we protect our client’s private life and identity. For example, we do not ask personal questions, we do not keep records or phone numbers or accept credit cards.

I have been taught to respect with respect and for that reason we expect nothing less from every person we treat. Yes, there is an exchange, a monetary exchange between us and our clients, but for us money is energy and we respect that energy as much as we respect the person by being honest with our work and trustful with what we do.

I am not a Buddhist, and they are not the only ones using the word Karma, every religion has its own interpretation of Karma which may be as simple as saying that whatever you put out there whatever is coming back to you stronger and multiplied by inertia of your action.  Our professional ethic is important to us because some one is trusting us and giving to us in order to receive what we promise we can deliver, and if we do not do so, the whole meaning changes and so, the whole inertia.

Respect works both ways and is a question of Karma. Do you ever hear “bad things happens to bad people”; In Metaphysics it is called “Law of Cause & Effect” where every action has its opposite but also a result. I do not consider myself a religious person and believe me, this is not my intention on that post.

Many times I feel bad and I see things which hurt me. I am Spanish and we have a temper which as I get older I learn to control and to use for my benefit, but being a masseur, an erotic masseur, is not always easy and it does not matter how much you love to help or to do what you know you have the skills to do, many times I question whether it is worth it. Then I remember all the friends I made around the world in my 13 years as a masseur, all the people I did help, all the men who once were miserable and unhappy and today are happy and they feel good about themselves, all the smiling faces coming back and forward and yes it is worth it, every single moment is worth it.

I do not care if someone does not get it, I am not going to get angry or upset if someone calls at the last minute any more, or just does not show up to his appointment without any notice, because every time that this happens something better came to me, someone who needs me more, who made me feel better about myself or some one who gave me the respect I deserve and the most important reason why I will not stop doing what I know do the best, is because overall, I Respect myself and what I believe.

Namaste !  Andres   London Sensual Massage Owner

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Sensual Massage and any other massage technique where the partner is a professional masseur is an act of giving, which means that besides helping you to regenerate yourself with your own energies, many times the male masseur will boost you using his own energies as a dynamo. 

The masseur will have to prepare himself prior to your arrival in order to be able to boost you without giving you what he needs for himself. But for many reasons, such as last minute bookings, long sessions prior to yours, bad days (yes we have some of those too) or just because he is too tired to concentrate, he will start sharing his own. A professional massage therapist must be careful and learn when is the moment to stop working before he gets weak and then sick.

That is the reason why even if I tried my best to be available, there are some times, especially late at night, that I am not available for a booking. 

You are welcome to call at any time but do not expect me to be always available and if I am not, please tried to understand and do not take it personally. I am just taking care of myself and trying to give you always the best service.

Namaste! Andres London Sensual Massage _ Owner.

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There are many benefits of a Sensual Massage when performed by a professional masseur.

- Total Relaxation.

Like any other massage? Well, sort of. Every professional massage should be relaxing, in fact relaxation should be the aim of any massage. But if you are a person who gets excited during the massage, if you do not get relief, that excitement will become a constricting energy which provokes a stress in your unconscious. Therefore, when you get a sensual massage with relief, not only do you obtain pleasure but also your body gets rid of those constricting negative energies. 

- Improve your Self-confidence.  

A professional male masseur will not judge you during the massage nor do anything differently due to your physical appearance, age or race. You will feel the caring honest unconditional touch which will always improve your confidence and well being. 

- Boost Your Immune System.

Never again sick? A chronic health situation which will be fully resolved? Wrong. Let me say it again. WRONG! We are not doctors and we cannot do anything more than make you feel better in your body and with yourself. However, it is a fact that massage is a good way to pump the immune system. 

Holistic techniques help us to get in touch with our full self; a sensual massage is about acceptance, acceptance of our desires and of who we are, and when that happens we learn to love ourselves and respect our bodies. Many problems with the immune system begin when we lose that love and that respect for ourselves. 

- Long Healthy Sexual Life.

Sensual massage and especially prostate massage help to improve our sexual life and sexual health.
Knowing our body, exploring our body and searching for new experiences helps us to maintain the active sexual drive which translates into a better relationship with ourselves and others.

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There is a reason for that, not specific only to London if not to any other big city, and it has to do with the style of life we are forced to live in big cities.

We all know what we mean by quality of life and we know that whatever it is big cities have to offer, quality of life is never going to be included on any advantage list. 

I have been traveling around the world since I was a teenager. I am myself from a little town on the Spanish coast and have lived everywhere from the biggest cities in the world to the most peaceful and spiritual places you could find, and there is something that always keeps me wondering. Regardless of the freedom we imagine exists living on a big city, there is no comparison with the authentic meaning you will experience living in a small place. 

What we call freedom in a city such as London is nothing more than indifference. We live in ourselves, worry about our own needs, absorbed in our fears, and usually controlled by our ego’s desires, detached from our goals and feelings. Is that car or that house honestly the key to your happiness? At what cost? Do we really give ourselves the freedom to be? If we do not manage to do so, how is it possible we will give that right to any one else? Do we honestly respect others’ space and desires? Or could we just not care less?

Small communities, towns, islands have the bad reputation of restricting us from being ourselves and that could not be more wrong. The only restriction is that half of the things we believe are the clue of happiness could not be more meaningless and unnecessary.  Life is more essential; there is a need to be practical. You do not need to show how successful you are by wearing designer clothes. You show how successful you are by having the license to be yourself, and if you always do so you will get the respect, that is your power.  

In small villages, towns, cities, simple things become the key to your happiness, things such us meeting friends for a glass of wine after work, good food on the table, the pleasure of good flavours and sharing these with the people you love, who usually are the ones who accept who you are no matter what, a walk on the forest, a fire place or laid in the sun naked.

For as long as I can remember, I went to nudist beaches. Coming as I said from a little catholic town on the coast, nudity was part of our usual practice. There was nothing sexual about it, it was just something natural and I always got the same sensation whenever I was living in a small place, always that if you are respectful and you do it where it is permitted, you will get the respect even from someone who does share your lifestyle.

We know that our freedom begins where the freedom of the person next to us ends and the other way around. Concern rather than indifference about others’ liberty as well as our own is the starting point of personal space and respect. You cannot obtain what you do not deliver and you never will when your vanishing point perspective of life is your own bottom belly.

It is this natural feeling that we create in a naturist massage session, this contact with your freedom, freedom to explore, to feel, to touch, to be yourself sharing your personal space but always with respect to others. 

Namaste! Andres _ London Sensual Massage _ owner

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There is not such a thing!

The wrong idea about what happens during a prostate massage session is to believe that one is going to be constantly fingered. If that ever happened to you, your masseur had no idea what a prostate massage is.

Prostate massage is the stimulation of the prostate, that is the easy part. However, there is more to this than simply putting fingers inside you as if we are trying to reach your soul. Yes, there is an area to be accessed internally, a very sensitive one, but it is not the only spot to be stimulated, and of course not all men have the same sensitivity, we know that. For many men, that specific internal spot could be very painful, which does not mean he can not have and enjoy a prostate stimulation. It might simply mean that the approach should be different; if the spot is too sensitive to be manipulated, better to avoid it, but the prostate is a long area, not just about that inner spot. 

The prostate could be and should be stimulated both internally and externally.

We have that internal spot, which many therapists refer to as the male G spot and we find it around the back of the base of the penis, a little higher. The sensual, soft touch of the rectus and all the area we are going to find on our way to reaching that inner spot, will also give pleasure when well executed. It is an exploration which should be gentle, taking the time to let the dilatation occur as the male is getting excited, and given how sensitive that area is, the line between pleasure and pain is very fine. It should not be a question of penetrating with one, two, three four fingers, both hands and then clapping!

Due to medical issues, physical or mental barriers as well as any combination of these, one man will enjoy this more easily than another, but it is fifty-fifty as the male prostate massage therapist should know how to find his way in, when to stop and when to keep going. There is never such a thing as Too Tight!

External stimulation is as important as internal. All the area from your anus, including the external circular area around it, all the way down to the base of your penis, groin, and lower belly (just above base penis) are areas to be included during a prostate massage session, and of course, we know all these areas are sensitive so it should be done very carefully, with low pressure and letting the body adjust to the manipulation being executed. We should never try to get deep, be aggressive or put too much pressure, which is totally unnecessary. 

To conclude, there are many men who do not like foot massage, who get nervous about a head massage or having someone touching his face or hands. Well, the prostate, like any other part of our body, for many reasons could be one of those areas that we do not feel comfortable getting manipulated. It is not for all men and there is nothing wrong if this is the case for you. But it is never because you are Too Tight!

Namaste! Andres London Sensual Massage _ owner

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I can honestly say I am not a person into labels, but it is incredible the number of calls I receive every week from men asking me for girls.

At London Sensual Massage, I only offer man-to-man services. I am a solo male therapist owner. I am not an agency. I do not even offer a four hands massage service!

Why ‘Gay Massage’? No reason. For me it is the same to use that or any other label: ‘man to man massage’, ‘male erotic masseur for men’, etc. After all, these or any other labels do not define me as a person, nor as a professional. 

This does not mean that you have to be gay to visit me, nor that you are going to become one if you do; believe me, it takes a lot more than that! But it is a clear way to state the type of service I offer and that you are going to find an open-minded therapist who happens to be gay – and a very happy one!

That was my intention but it seems to me that even after using these labels, after using all the explanations and articles you could find on my site about a man-to- man service, seeing pictures of me all over the site, not to mention that I am the only person answering the phone, still there are people who just don’t get it!

Most of the time this is OK, but usually these calls are late at night, and more than once someone has asked me for the girls after he has arrived at my place, which is not cool at all.

It is for all these reasons that you are going to often see the gay massage label on my ads and website, but as I said, it is not meant to be exclusive, if anything it is meant to be the opposite. Every man is welcome regardless of his faith, beliefs, age, race or physical appearance. All you need to have is a clear open mind in order to enjoy the experience, and once the session is over, you are free to return to your life as you came, without any tag on you, at least not any new one. 

I am here to help you explore your body, to experience new sensations, to discover new ways to enjoy your sexuality and to make you feel good about yourself. What you do once you leave my studio is not my business unless you want to make me aware of it for some reason. I never keep phone numbers, make calls or send text messages; you are the one getting in contact with me all the time.

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If you already know your masseur and you just want to set up a booking, then by all means call. But if you want lots of information and you start asking hundreds of questions, do not expect too much interest from the other end of the line.

Maybe you think your question is unique. Well let me tell you there is no such thing! I have ready made answers for the more frequent questions, and honestly there are far too many of them!

My company name is London Sensual Massage and in all my ads and all over my website it says Victoria station, so just imagine how I feel when on call after call I am asked if I do Sensual Massage, where I am based, or better yet, where the girls are from (when man for man service, gay massage and pictures of me are all over the site)! I can tell you sometimes it is really frustrating. 

My point is that if you want your inquiry to be taken seriously you should call and never hide your number, and if for any major reason you can only use a number which cannot be revealed, you should say so right away and that it is not just a silly whim. You cannot expect me to give you my address or visit you without the security of knowing that if something happens I have a starting point to start looking for you. It is just common sense.

There are key questions which will make clear to me if you are genuine or not and of course I will not tell you what they are, but going back to the third paragraph, no one is that unique. All time wasters say the same things, so that makes it very easy to be right and very difficult to be wrong. And I have been answering the phone for 13 years, many men, many calls, many questions and many behaviors, which probably is my main point: time wasters behave in such an easy way to track.

Just be honest when you call, do not make it more complicated that it is, trust me and I will trust you. Each one of us has a personal life so for what reason will I complicate someones existence when making calls? If you are hiding your number you are telling me you are not trustful. If you are texting me instead of calling me you are not showing me credibility on your request.

The same applies to email. You want information, you call – unless you are not in the UK, in which case I will not let you book me. And again, please use common sense – if you are not in a hurry to get an answer, why do you not read the website where everything is explained to perfection? So if after the second email where I said very clearly that you have to call for booking I do not answer, it is not because I am rude, it is because when you do not call, I know you never will.

We are as professional as you can be and we deserve as much respect as you do, so please do not do anything you would not appreciate from someone else at your work place. 

Namaste ! Andres _ London Sensual Massage Owner

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A sensual massage is not just a massage with a happy end. For those who believe this is the same thing, well… I have news for you. I am sure you paid for a sensual massage but you never experienced a real sensual massage.

A sensual massage has a rhythm, a crescendo and when you get to the climax the male masseur should know how to keep you there, hold you and then bring you down to a proper energy level, according to your circumstances. This maybe sounds easy but working with men it becomes a difficult task, as the majority of men, once they obtain their relief, go into themselves, some feel guilty or many just lose interest in any type of physical contact. If you are one of those, take that grin off your face because honestly, it is not cute at all!

When you go for a relaxing massage, holistic massage, sport massage, etc… you just relax. Well, in a sensual massage session, it is the same, but just keep in mind the title of this post: “Sensuality, the teasing game”. You are going to be teased, the sensual male masseur is going to guide you through corridors where you are going to experience new sensations, and you are going to get confused because when you thought something will happen, it did not. To be confused is good, but frustrated is not so good. When frustration gets in place it is because you were expecting something sexual – do not – sensual has nothing to do with sexual. Somehow your masseur is going to bring you to your climax, you are going to obtain your relief but it is never going to be just a physical act.

Another thing you should not forget is that two do not tango if one does not want! I am not asking you to start climbing all over the masseur or to give the masseur a massage! Put simply, just behave, feel good toward your male therapist, respect him but be playful, get into the game with him. He is going to guide you, but be there, be aware of what is happening with an open mind but once again without expecting. At the end of the day we cannot forget that no matter how handsome he is, how good a masseur he is, there is not one sensual massage routine or technique.

You should remember that we are all different, and in life the chemistry between any two people is always different. It is the same between you and your male masseur. He is a skilled professional and he will try to tailor the session to suit what he perceives to be your needs and desires. But even when you have an open mind the session does not always succeed as you want – in massage as in life, sometimes the chemistry does not work.

But at least if he is a good therapist you should still enjoy yourself, you should be very relaxed and maybe you did not discover the nirvana but, hey, sure you feel good anyway. Just play, enjoy, explore, do not judge, do not expect and be grateful for whatever you discover.

Namaste! Andres London Sensual Massage Owner.

Sensuality, the teasing game

A sensual massage is not just a massage with a happy end. For those who believe this is the same thing, well… I have news for you. I am sure you paid for a sensual massage but you never experienced a real sensual massage.

A sensual massage has a rhythm, a crescendo and when you get to the climax the male masseur should know how to keep you there, hold you and then bring you down to a proper energy level, according to your circumstances. This maybe sounds easy but working with men it becomes a difficult task, as the majority of men, once they obtain their relief, go into themselves, some feel guilty or many just lose interest in any type of physical contact. If you are one of those, take that grin off your face because honestly, it is not cute at all!

When you go for a relaxing massage, holistic massage, sport massage, etc… you just relax. Well, in a sensual massage session, it is the same, but just keep in mind the title of this post: “Sensuality, the teasing game”. You are going to be teased, the sensual male masseur is going to guide you through corridors where you are going to experience new sensations, and you are going to get confused because when you thought something will happen, it did not. To be confused is good, but frustrated is not so good. When frustration gets in place it is because you were expecting something sexual – do not – sensual has nothing to do with sexual. Somehow your masseur is going to bring you to your climax, you are going to obtain your relief but it is never going to be just a physical act.

Another thing you should not forget is that two do not tango if one does not want! I am not asking you to start climbing all over the masseur or to give the masseur a massage! Put simply, just behave, feel good toward your male therapist, respect him but be playful, get into the game with him. He is going to guide you, but be there, be aware of what is happening with an open mind but once again without expecting. At the end of the day we cannot forget that no matter how handsome he is, how good a masseur he is, there is not one sensual massage routine or technique.

You should remember that we are all different, and in life the chemistry between any two people is always different. It is the same between you and your male masseur. He is a skilled professional and he will try to tailor the session to suit what he perceives to be your needs and desires. But even when you have an open mind the session does not always succeed as you want – in massage as in life, sometimes the chemistry does not work.

But at least if he is a good therapist you should still enjoy yourself, you should be very relaxed and maybe you did not discover the nirvana but, hey, sure you feel good anyway. Just play, enjoy, explore, do not judge, do not expect and be grateful for whatever you discover.

Namaste! Andres London Sensual Massage Owner.

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What I am trying to explain is that during the service, whether it is the 1h service or the 1h30 service, it is going to happen but not during the whole time. It is not a 1h or 1h30 prostate massage! I treat the prostate as any other part of the body, shoulders, back, legs, feet, prostate, etc…

The erotic massage is a full body erotic nude massage, which means the male masseur is nude as well as you, and it is as much erotic massage as relaxing massage – it has an evolution and an increasing rhythm. We work on your back first and the service is focused on your relaxation, on your shoulders, back, lower back, buttocks, legs and feet. After this first part of the massage you will be asked to turn over and then your front shoulders, arms, hands, chest, thighs, erogenous spots, genitals and prostate will be massaged until it brings you relief and will finish with a very pleasurable neck and head massage.

Different techniques of Reiki, Tantric, Californian, Thai massage are applied. I take the best of each technique, developing a personal approach to sensual massage for men. Just keep in mind that each time and with each client it could be a little different according to the perception I have of what you need, what your body is needing, but overall the structure of the massage is pretty much the same unless it has been tailored to specific needs or fantasy.

Any request will be accepted but always should be negotiated from the beginning and I recommend even doing it when making the booking.

Namaste!  Andres London Sensual Massage Owner . 

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