Many people who seek lingam massage therapy assume that an orgasm is the ultimate goal of the lingam massage. An orgasm however, is simply a pleasant side effect and is welcome.

However, the lingam healing massage is aimed at massaging the lingam, the prostrate (also known as the sacred spot) and the perineum externally. The man is therefore able to surrender to pleasure in the form that he is not accustomed to. The giver and receiver will therefore both relax in the course of the lingam massage.